Hooking up with one or two of your hallmates within the first few days of school, however, is a definite no-no.When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.Here are some of the reasons they like going for younger girls: 1. By dating a college-aged girl, the guy may be attempting to relive the college experience and recreate the feeling of sexual liberty he experienced as an undergrad. As a freshman girl, eligible cuties seem to be everywhere, and guess what? The attention can be fun, but when it comes down to it, the dating game in college is one that you’ll learn a lot about as time goes on—you might not be a pro right off the bat.He might want it and he might even ask for it, but if you’re uncomfortable, it’s not up to you to give it to him.Know your boundaries and ask him—whether you know him well or not—to respect your boundaries. There are always the guys that have no qualms about coming in between a group of girl friends just to get some action.
As a new student, you’ll get a feel for student life and get exposed to every kind of guy—frat boys, athletes, pre-meds, business students and artsy guys, too.
Stepping away from your college bubble also means you are re-entering the “real world,” at least for three months.
Whether you’re living in a city away from home for a job or internship, traveling, or just living at home, you’re much more likely to face “real world” situations – such as dating older men. And are mature enough to talk about things other than chugging Bud Light in their frat houses !
If you’ve broken up, there was a reason, and now is the time to move on.
Your freshman year is meant for new beginnings, not dwelling on old relationships.