If you date or marry him, you will likely end up being his mother. Well, assuming that there are about seven to nine years between you and the young man in question, I am saying that you have a lot to evaluate before going forward (assuming he is the one who will be pursuing you).
If you have considered the compatibility of your maturity levels and if you have been able to observe this young man in various scenarios and you are at peace with what you’ve experienced, then I would proceed with caution.
Considering how men and women mature at different rates, will a 20-year-old man be able to lead in a relationship with a woman who is pushing 30? Some are taught to be responsible, while others are coddled.
So it’s likely you could have a very mature 20-year-old man who was raised to lead and do his part.
Since the field trip was going to last a week I put together a with several outfits so she would be able to cover several days. Adapt the outfit to your needs Obviously, you’re not going to wear pumps on a field trip so try a pair of cute sneakers instead (see some of my recommendations in the shopping section below).
: Each He Said-She Said column features a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.
Several Scripture passages have helped me often throughout the years. She will not hinder him, but help him all her life (Proverbs -12). I’ve had dating relationships where there have been significant gaps in age and ones where there have been differences of only a few years or less.
Age alone is not a determining factor of the compatibility of two people.
You would have to investigate on a relationship-by-relationship basis to see what works for some and what doesn’t work for others.
The more I think about this, though, I’m drawing the conclusion that an age difference is more of a “red light” factor when two people are be a problem.
He has shown me through His continual faithfulness that He knows what is best for me. There are verses in the Bible where women take the lead, but they are not the type of women I would want to be with. So I have come out to meet you; I have been looking for you and have found you (Proverbs 7:8, 10, 15). If you have to ask if there is an “appropriate age difference,” then I believe you already know the answer in your heart.
Although I have experienced some disappointments along the way, I have been protected from relationships that were not right for me; I just see it as God’s grace. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. He was walking down the street near the corner on the road leading to her house. : I’ll have to start out my answer on a personal note, since I know a thing or two about age differences when it comes to relationships.